MEDICALLY INVOLVED

IN LOVE WITH BOYFRIEND AND A COLLEAGUE AT SAME TIME

Introduction:

My name is *Amanda, and I’m a thirty-five-year-old physician working at a big medical facility in my city’s downtown in the United States. I ‘m a South Asian ancestral black descent in love with two men in my life, who equally want to spend the rest of their lives with me. I guess I’m lucky, but I’m so confused. Please help…

*My real name is withheld for privacy reasons.

I was recently engaged by my boyfriend of seven years. We’ve been through rough and good times, and still grew over time. My boyfriend knows me too well and all my emotional hotspots. 

However, nine months just before he engaged me, I fell in love with another man, a senior colleague of mine, who thrills me with admiration, respect and emotional support. He’s forty-two years old. I knew it’s wrong, but I couldn’t help myself falling for such a cute guy. He just makes my workplace more interesting.

Insightfully, my boyfriend is now very in a hurry to fix our wedding date, but I’m so scared to commit myself. Deep down I love him, but my heart is somewhere else.

I really need your thoughts on my current emotional situation.

Sincerely,

Amanda

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